My Wonderland

If You’re Like Me, the Family Organiser... You probably find yourself thinking, “I should write all this down in case something happens to me…” Well, this is my shareable list, the non-therapy stuff I wish I’d had in one place. The real-world, practical gems that make life a little easier when you’re juggling everything. Consider this a gift to all the other parents holding it together behind the scenes.  I figured it was time to write all this down. Because when you’re parenting a child with a disability, just knowing stuff becomes its own kind of survival skill. And yet, most of the best info isn’t in any handbook, it’s just in the abyss and you have to hope you come by it. So here it is. A working list of the helpful, practical, sometimes obscure things I’ve picked up along the way. Some of them might seem small, but trust me: in a world that’s not built for our kids, the small wins matter. HOLIDAYS! And suprisingly cheap or even free! Ronald McDonald Houses These aren’t just ...

We talk a lot about inclusive cities or smart cities. Buzzwords like accessibility, universal design, and diversity are tossed around in policy documents and press releases as if they’re already achieved. But here’s the truth: If your city doesn’t have adequate Changing Places facilities, then your city is not inclusive. It’s not accessible. And it’s definitely not modern. Changing Places are fully accessible bathrooms designed for people with complex disabilities. They go well beyond standard accessible toilets and include: An adult-sized, height-adjustable change table, a  ceiling hoist system, e nough space for a wheelchair user and multiple carers, a  privacy screen or curtain.  In short: basic dignity. If you’ve never needed a Changing Place, chances are you’ve never checked whether one exists nearby. But for families like mine, our entire day hinges on finding one. And even then, we are bracing ourselves. Because like most parents of a disabled child, I don’t just h...